{"id":119,"date":"2017-02-14T23:27:53","date_gmt":"2017-02-15T03:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/?p=119"},"modified":"2017-04-03T23:12:04","modified_gmt":"2017-04-04T03:12:04","slug":"partners-who-avoid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/partners-who-avoid\/","title":{"rendered":"When Sex Goes Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In my private practice in Burbank, Ca, I often hear couple&#8217;s complaining that their partner will no longer have sex with them. \u00a0For some couple&#8217;s this time of no sex can last for months or even years. The partner who is no longer interested is often the female in the relationship, but not always. About 15% of the time it is the male.<\/p>\n<p>Research shows that touch, hugs, kisses and sexual intercourse are important components in keeping couples emotionally close. When sex seems to have gone away, I advise couples to continue to shower together, to give each other massages and back rubs. When sitting on the sofa watching television, make it a point to touch. \u00a0Stay connected to each other&#8217;s bodies even if intercourse is not happening. This will go a long way in protecting your relationship over the &#8220;dry&#8221; spells.<\/p>\n<p>Jeannette York, LMFT \u00a0 818.200.9513<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my private practice in Burbank, Ca, I often hear couple&#8217;s complaining that their partner will no longer have sex with them. \u00a0For some couple&#8217;s this time of no sex can last for months or even years. The partner who is no longer interested is often the female in the relationship, but not always. About &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/partners-who-avoid\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">When Sex Goes Away<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,57,43,37,41,59,51,25,61,50,1,52,62],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication","category-couples-counseling","category-deepen-your-relationship","category-emotional-abuse","category-engagement","category-families","category-family-help","category-family-therapy","category-forgiveness","category-gaslight","category-uncategorized","category-personal-emotional-triggers","category-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=119"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}