{"id":127,"date":"2017-04-03T18:47:36","date_gmt":"2017-04-03T22:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/?p=127"},"modified":"2017-04-03T23:10:09","modified_gmt":"2017-04-04T03:10:09","slug":"forgiveness-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/forgiveness-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgiveness In Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My favorite quote on forgiveness , &#8220;Mistakes are always forgivable if<\/p>\n<p>they are admitted&#8221;. \u00a0( Bruce Lee). \u00a0When you find yourself in the<\/p>\n<p>position \u00a0 of apologizing to you partner, remember to acknowledge<\/p>\n<p>what you<\/p>\n<p>are apologizing for. \u00a0Never say, &#8221; I am sorry you got hurt&#8221;, or &#8221; I know<\/p>\n<p>you are sensitive&#8221;. \u00a0Those are neither sincere or believable. \u00a0Be direct<\/p>\n<p>and say, &#8221; I am sorry that I forgot to pick you up for work and you<\/p>\n<p>stood out in the rain, that must have been miserable&#8221;. \u00a0It doesn&#8217;t<\/p>\n<p>matter whether your actions were accidental. \u00a0The important<\/p>\n<p>piece is that your partner got hurt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My favorite quote on forgiveness , &#8220;Mistakes are always forgivable if they are admitted&#8221;. \u00a0( Bruce Lee). \u00a0When you find yourself in the position \u00a0 of apologizing to you partner, remember to acknowledge what you are apologizing for. \u00a0Never say, &#8221; I am sorry you got hurt&#8221;, or &#8221; I know you are sensitive&#8221;. \u00a0Those &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/forgiveness-in-relationships\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Forgiveness In Relationships<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,57,49,50,58,32,1,52,56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication","category-couples-counseling","category-deceit","category-gaslight","category-marriage","category-marriage-and-family-therapist","category-uncategorized","category-personal-emotional-triggers","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=127"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/couplescounselorlosangeles.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}